How to Stay Independent as You Age

How to Stay Independent as You Age

Staying independent as you age is not about chasing youth or doing extreme workouts. It is about keeping the physical abilities that let you live your actual life: getting off the floor, carrying groceries, walking confidently, climbing stairs, travelling, gardening, playing with grandkids, and recovering well when life gets busy.

At Vaughan’s Fitness, our kinesiologists often see adults who do not want a “gym transformation” as much as they want capability. They want to feel steady, strong, mobile, and confident in their body. That is a very trainable goal.

Direct Answer: What Is the Best Exercise for Staying Independent as You Age?

The best exercise plan for staying independent as you age combines strength training, balance work, mobility, low-impact cardio, and power training. Strength training is the foundation because muscle helps you stand, lift, climb, catch yourself, protect your joints, and maintain bone density. Balance and mobility help you move safely. Cardio supports energy and heart health. Power training helps you react quickly enough to prevent falls and handle real-life movements.

The key is not doing one perfect exercise. The key is training the qualities of independence consistently, at the right level for your body.

Why Independence Is a Fitness Goal, Not Just an Age Goal

Many people think loss of independence happens suddenly. In reality, it is usually gradual. Stairs start feeling harder. Getting out of low chairs takes more effort. A walk on uneven ground feels less secure. Carrying laundry, luggage, or groceries becomes something to avoid. None of these changes mean your body is “too old.” They usually mean specific physical qualities have not been trained recently.

Independence depends on several trainable systems working together:

  • Leg strength for chairs, stairs, hills, lifting, and balance recovery.
  • Upper-body strength for carrying, pushing, pulling, and getting up from the ground.
  • Core control for transferring force and staying stable while moving.
  • Balance for uneven surfaces, quick direction changes, and confidence.
  • Mobility for reaching, bending, squatting, rotating, and walking comfortably.
  • Cardiovascular capacity for energy, recovery, and longer days.

This is why a well-rounded program matters. Walking is excellent, but walking alone usually does not build enough strength to maintain independence long-term. Stretching can feel good, but stretching alone will not teach your body to produce force or recover balance. A smart plan brings the pieces together.

The 5 Physical Abilities That Protect Independence

1. Getting Up and Down

One of the clearest signs of functional strength is whether you can get out of a chair, off the floor, or up from a low surface without panic. This requires leg strength, hip mobility, trunk control, and confidence.

Useful training categories include sit-to-stands, box squats, split squats, step-ups, glute bridges, and supported floor transitions. The right starting point depends on the person. For one client, the first step may be standing from a higher box without using the hands. For another, it may be learning a controlled lunge pattern or practicing how to get down to the floor safely.

2. Carrying and Lifting

Independence requires carrying things. Groceries, laundry baskets, pet food, luggage, grandchildren, garden supplies, and household items all count as strength tasks. If you never train carrying, daily life can start to feel heavier than it should.

At Vaughan’s Fitness, we often use practical strength exercises such as loaded carries, rows, deadlift variations, presses, and controlled hinge patterns. The goal is not to make every client lift maximal weights. The goal is to build usable strength with good technique so real-life lifting feels safer and easier.

3. Balance and Fall Recovery

Balance is not just standing on one foot. It is your ability to control your body when the environment changes. That might mean stepping over a curb, turning quickly, walking on grass, catching yourself after a stumble, or carrying something while moving.

Good balance training progresses gradually. It can include supported single-leg work, step-downs, side steps, reach patterns, gait drills, and strength work that challenges control. The goal is to build confidence, not create fear. If a balance exercise feels chaotic or unsafe, it is too advanced for that moment.

4. Mobility You Can Actually Use

Mobility is your ability to move through a useful range with control. Flexibility is part of that, but mobility also includes strength, coordination, and joint awareness.

For independence, the most important areas are usually the hips, ankles, upper back, and shoulders. These areas affect squatting, walking, reaching overhead, rotating, and posture. A mobility plan might include controlled hip rotations, ankle rocks, thoracic rotations, shoulder wall slides, or assisted squat patterns. The best exercises are chosen based on what your body actually needs, not a generic internet checklist.

5. Power and Reaction Time

Power often sounds like an athlete-only concept, but it matters enormously for aging well. Power is your ability to produce force quickly. When you trip, miss a step, or need to react, slow strength is not the whole story. Your body needs enough speed and coordination to respond.

Power training for adults does not need to be aggressive. It can be as simple as fast-but-controlled sit-to-stands, medicine ball throws, step-up drives, light sled pushes, or low-impact speed drills. The right version should feel crisp and safe, not reckless.

What a Weekly Independence-Focused Program Can Include

A practical independence program does not need to consume your life. Most adults can make meaningful progress with two to four structured sessions per week, plus regular walking or recreational activity.

Training Quality Why It Matters Example Categories
Strength Supports stairs, lifting, joint resilience, and muscle mass Squats, hinges, rows, presses, carries
Balance Improves control, confidence, and fall-prevention ability Step-downs, single-leg support, directional stepping
Mobility Keeps movement options available for daily tasks Hip, ankle, shoulder, and upper-back drills
Cardio Builds energy, endurance, and recovery capacity Walking, cycling, incline treadmill, intervals when appropriate
Power Helps with quick reactions and dynamic real-life movements Fast sit-to-stands, med ball throws, light sled work

If you are new or returning after time away, it is usually smarter to begin conservatively. A good first month might focus on learning movements, building consistency, and finding tolerable starting loads. From there, the program can progress by adding repetitions, resistance, range of motion, complexity, or density.

How Kinesiologists Individualize Training for Older Adults

A generic workout can be helpful, but it can also miss the point. Two people may have the same goal of staying independent and need very different programs. One may need more hip strength. Another may need ankle mobility. Another may need confidence after a knee replacement, back flare-up, fall, or long break from exercise.

That is where a kinesiologist-led approach is valuable. At Vaughan’s Fitness, all trainers are university-degreed kinesiologists, so the process starts with how you move, what you want to do, and what currently limits you. In our South Langley studio, we can scale exercises up or down while keeping the goal practical: helping you become more capable in daily life.

For many clients, the first step is not intensity. It is clarity. We want to know which movements feel strong, which feel uncertain, which symptoms need respect, and which daily tasks matter most to you. If pain, injury, or medical history is involved, exercise should be coordinated with appropriate healthcare advice. We do not diagnose online, and persistent or worsening pain should be assessed by a qualified health professional.

Relevant resources: learn more about our personal training in Langley, our kinesiology services, and how strength training after 40 supports long-term capability.

Common Mistakes That Make Independence Harder

Only doing cardio. Walking, cycling, and hiking are excellent, but they do not replace progressive strength training. If muscle is declining, cardio alone may not protect chair strength, carrying strength, or fall-recovery ability.

Avoiding all challenging movements. Safety matters, but avoiding every difficult movement can shrink your capacity over time. The better approach is to scale movements so they are challenging enough to adapt but controlled enough to respect your body.

Training randomly. Independence is built through repetition and progression. If every workout is completely different, it becomes harder to measure improvement or build confidence.

Waiting until something goes wrong. Many people start strength training only after a fall, injury, or health scare. It is never too late to begin, but starting before a crisis gives you more options.

Ignoring recovery. Older adults can absolutely train hard, but recovery matters. Sleep, nutrition, hydration, and sensible weekly planning help the body adapt.

How to Start If You Feel Intimidated

If you have not exercised in years, the idea of starting can feel intimidating. That is normal. You do not need to walk into a crowded gym and guess what to do. You also do not need to prove anything on day one.

A good starting plan should answer three simple questions:

  • What daily tasks do you want to keep or regain?
  • What movements currently feel weak, stiff, painful, or uncertain?
  • What is the smallest consistent routine you can repeat and progress?

At Vaughan’s Fitness, we have been helping clients in Langley since 2013 from our private studio at 658 200th St. We are not a crowded big-box gym, and there are no locked contracts. Our programs are individualized, coached, and adjusted as your body changes.

If your goal is to stay strong, steady, and independent for the next decade and beyond, book your 2 FREE sessions at Vaughan’s Fitness. You can also review our pricing before you come in.

FAQ: Exercise and Independence as You Age

How often should older adults strength train?

Most adults do well with two to three strength sessions per week. Some prefer four shorter sessions. The best frequency depends on training history, recovery, goals, and any medical considerations.

Is it too late to start strength training after 60 or 70?

No. Many people can gain strength, improve balance, and build confidence later in life. The starting point should match your current ability, but age alone is not a reason to avoid training.

What exercises are most important for independence?

Exercises that train squatting, hinging, stepping, carrying, pushing, pulling, rotating, balancing, and getting up from the floor are especially useful because they transfer well to real life.

Should I exercise if I have joint pain?

It depends on the type, severity, and behaviour of the pain. Some joint discomfort improves with appropriate strength and mobility work, but sharp, worsening, or unexplained pain should be assessed by a qualified healthcare professional.

Do I need a personal trainer to stay independent?

Not always, but coaching can help if you are unsure how to start, have pain or injury history, want accountability, or need a program tailored to your goals. A kinesiologist-led plan can make the process safer, clearer, and more effective.

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Andrew Fettback
2 years ago
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Autumn Rose
2 years ago
Fantastic trainers that customize work outs to fit my specific goals for fitness. Workouts are challenging, fun and varied to keep it interesting. I very highly recommend!

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After a full year of personal training here I could not be more happy! My goals were met and then some, my trainer Jasmine was amazing and customized each workout based on my growth and my goals. The atmosphere is very relaxed, supportive and there is no pressure for memberships!
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Phil Bates
2 years ago
2024 update:

My wife and I have been training with Vaughan's for 6 years! We love the friendly and supportive trainers and environment.

Special kudos to our two trainers Marissa and Jorell who challenge us every week while making it fun, and of course to Jarid for his leadership. We are really pleased with the fitness levels and strength they've helped us to build.

Highly recommend the Vaughan's team!

Original review from 2019:

My wife and I highly recommend Vaughan Fitness. Hats off to Jarid - the training methods work amazingly well in conditioning and building strength. And we feel very comfortable with the environment and the team that Jarid has built. We just love our trainer (Jazmin) - she is friendly, caring and pushes us just the right amount. 11 out of 10.
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Norman Isaak
2 years ago
Have been a member at Vaughan's Fitness for over 2 years, use a personnel trainer and the results for me have been very rewarding. Great staff, great location, great fitness center. Combined with an FST just an added bonus.
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Bradley Gordica
2 years ago
Great knowledgeable staff and nice local gym that is not too big or too small.Jared runs a professional practise.
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Mark Thomas
2 years ago
This place meets the hype! highly recommend, do not scroll through websites just go, you will not regret!
I started Training with Jarid in July 2023. We set my fitness and health goals and I initially committed training for 12 weeks. I like the relaxed atmosphere and Jarid's no pressure approach. I trained x3 sessions week, 2x with Jarid and 1x with Miss Marissa. Jarid is a beast of a trainer and all round stand-up guy. He is an intuitive trainer who ensures he tempers the training to not break your spirits but ensure he is getting maximum results from you. I signed on for an additional 8 weeks from my initial commitment. Though I did not meet my weight loss goal, which has nothing to do with the high class training I received, I did CRUSH my strength and conditioning goals!
Jarid's approach to overall health fitness and wellness combined with habit restructuring has made exceed my fitness and weight loss goals. Now 8 weeks after leaving Vaughan's Fitness I am -19.2lbs down my initial start weight in July 2023 and still crushing workouts at home. I cannot thank Jarid and his team enough for all the love and support during my time there.
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Carmen Moser
3 years ago
I have been a client at Vaughan's Fitness for over six years. The facility is well-equipped, clean, and offers highly qualified trainers.

The personal trainers at Vaughan's are exceptional. Their expertise is evident in their tailored approach to individual needs, pushing me to achieve my fitness goals. Their professionalism, combined with a motivating attitude, made each session both challenging and enjoyable.

The dedication of the trainers sets Vaughan's apart, creating an environment that fosters success. I highly recommend Vaughan's Fitness for anyone looking for expert guidance and a transformative fitness journey.
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Faris Khan
3 years ago
This place is awesome. The owner Jarid really cares about everyone here. As someone who was scared and intimidated of gyms and fitness in general, this place made me feel confident. I took personal training sessions for 2 months straight with Jasmin, Marissa and Maddison and all 3 of them were exceptional! They walked me through different exercises, showed me proper form and pushed me hard enough to keep challenging myself to get those last reps in. I really cannot thank these people enough and I recommend everyone to give them a shot. Everyone here is extremely friendly and supportive. Thanks to them, I was able to kick-start my fitness journey ?.
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Erin Segboer
3 years ago
Jarid and the team at Vaughans have created an amazing atmosphere! I trained for nearly 1.5 years and worked with a different trainers - everyone was so knowledgeable, supportive and was able to push me just the right amount. I am so grateful for the strength, confidence and knowledge I gained during my time there. I can’t recommend them enough!
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Harshaad Jouhal
3 years ago
Working with Coach Vaughan has been a crucial part in my athletic development and performance. His specification to my direct needs and goals has greatly impacted my life and has allowed me to see sustainable results. I truly recommend Coach Jarid Vaughan and his talented staff to any and all athletes looking to get ahead for their upcoming season, as well as anyone who wishes to excel in their fitness journey!
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Ryan W
4 years ago
I was very nervous about starting at a gym. Then I found Vaughan's, the trainers here are amazing! Any questions or concerns are answered with knowledge and experience. I have found confidence in the trainers I work with! Always a happy and friendly environment, this place is the highlight of my week!
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Louise Pukanich
4 years ago
Great find! A bit out of the way but worth the drive. Amazing trainers, great workouts that push me and create real results. Love the different personalities that motivate and make me enjoy being there. Very welcoming, inviting staff. Nice to watch the horses in between sets.
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Erin Usselmam
4 years ago
My son is an elite athlete and has been working with Jared for the last 6 months. Jared is extremely knowledgeable and has provided my son with great information and exercises he can incorporate into his training regime. I highly recommend Jared and Vaughan’s Fitness.
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Hilary Dore
4 years ago
My husband and I have been training with Vaughans Fitness for a little over 5 years now and we couldn’t be happier with them. The kinesiologists are always able to adjust workouts to our specific and sometimes daily changing needs. Their attention to detail is unlike any facility I’ve ever been to!
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Steffanie Blouin
4 years ago
I went to Vaughan's Fitness after a painful year of arthritis in hopes to improve mobility and decrease the constant pain I was feeling. Thanks to the specific exercises and stretches I began to feel less pain and now I'm pain free. I've enjoyed the improvements in my health so much I'm now working harder at strength training and it feels amazing both mentally and physically! I would highly recommend Vaughan's Fitness to anyone!
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Tracey Arthur
4 years ago
The facility is spacious, clean and there is a good variety of equipment available. Having the riding ring attached makes for a nice and unique atmosphere. Melissa has been a great motivator and just what we needed for our training. We appreciate she is flexible with our schedule and how intense the training should be for that week.
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Anne White
4 years ago
I really enjoying all aspects of the gym including the trainers. In the last 3 years, I have had 3 trainers and they all have been wonderful. With Jill leaving last month, my new trainer Catherine is also amazing. During my first session, she definitely challenged me and I enjoy her personality as well. Everyone at Vaughan's is very friendly and helpful. Even when I come to work out on my own, the staff are all helpful and I love the fact that it is such a small gym that during covid has made working out more enjoyable. Thank you Anne White
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Alisha Kerr
4 years ago
I have been training at Vaughans for just over a few months now and I have had nothing but an incredible experience! The trainers are super knowledgeable and extremely friendly making each session something to look forward to. If you are looking for a gym or a personal trainer this is most definitely the place to come!
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Terry DiMonte
4 years ago
After years of training in a wonderful boutique gym in Montreal, I was looking for something similar when we moved to the Fraser Valley and I found it at Vaughn's. Wonderful setting, great, well equipped gym with great people. Expert (and patient!) trainers helped me get back in the swing of my work outs. HIGHLY recommend them!
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Alison Wardley
5 years ago
Great people here! Felt so accomplished after each session. Would definitely recommend ?
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Joseph Maitland
5 years ago
So far it has been a great experience and no complaints. Staff is knowledgable, hardworking and honest. If they don't know the answer to one of my questions they say so and find the answer instead of giving bad advice.

The facility is clean, in a gorgeous area overlooking the riding arena and the would equipment is in good order. Keep it up as I can see why they are successful.
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A Mann
5 years ago
The team at Vaughan's Fitness is beyond exceptional. They are talented, knowledgeable and work incredibly hard to help you achieve your goals. Having an education in Kinesiology elevates the training experience as they are not only able to train you safely but also efficiently. I would recommend Jarid and his team to anyone!
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Ryan Lescisin
5 years ago
I cannot say enough good things about my experience working out with the team at Vaughn fitness. Marissa has gone above and beyond to create a program that fits my needs and the results have been amazing. I would definitely recommend Jarid and his world class team to anyone.
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Paul Battaglia
5 years ago
I love this place. Plenty of equipment and very clean. I appreciate the staff, as they work very hard to help you achieve your goals. I also like that it is family run - makes the experience personal.
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Charissa Harbridge
6 years ago
Vaughan’s fitness is AMAZING! The staff are so friendly, professional and motivating. The facility is clean and beautiful, also located on beautiful grounds. Jarid is a wonderful owner, he replies promptly to emails and is super excited to get clients what they want and need. I would absolutely never go another personal training facility because at Vaughan’s, I truly feel like I’m family. Everyone knows your name, they’re invested in your fitness goals and take an active role in learning more about you. This facility and it’s members and staff are legit. They’re amazing and I would HIGHLY recommend Vaughan’s fitness to anyone looking to get in shape and achieve their fitness goals. I’ve trained with Allysia, Alyssa, Alex and Ally and they’re all amazing! It’s also a super non-threatening environment. I’ve found with going to other gyms before it can be super intimidating when you don’t know all the machines are what exercises to do, but here they explain everything, it’s non-judgemental, and everyone roots for you. 10/10 would recommend.
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Luke Stewart
6 years ago
A welcoming, professionally developed and evidently knowledgeable environment was the initial impression I observed from Vaughan’s Fitness. One year later, I can confidently state that anyone’s goals are achievable with the dedication and support offered at Vaughan’s Fitness. In fact, you’ll enjoy surpassing them.

Previously I struggle with appropriate workouts, nutritional guidance, and minor injuries. Initially I debated the decision of inquiring into personal trainers but grateful I chose to. Over the last year, Jarid has been genuinely accommodating to my chaotic schedule. Allowing me the opportunity of working parallel with several trainers who are immensely supportive. They are as interested in your wellbeing and goals as they are fun, motivating and personable.
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Barinder Singh
7 years ago
I love going to this place. Friendly staff, great environment. If you are looking for a nice and quiet place to workout and for personal training, I would definitely recommend Vaughan’s Fitness.
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Drako 89
7 years ago
Love how the training is unique to my health needs. Intelligent and compassionate trainers. Great atmosphere.
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Hannah Rolfe
7 years ago
The trainers and atmosphere at Vaughan's Fitness are top tier. With tailored personal training, an uplifting team and upbeat environment Jarid has curated an unparalleled training experience. Both myself and my coworkers are members and have seen tangible results within weeks. Highly recommend!
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Barb Sweeney
7 years ago
I've been coming to VF for just under 2 years. I do a lot of active, bike and hike, travel and my sessions here ensure that I'm able to enjoy my trips to the fullest. The trainers are all so knowledgeable, and it's always such a friendly and welcoming place to work out! I miss it when I'm away.
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Rob Koreman
7 years ago
If you’re like me you have been humming and hawing about doing this for a long time. You are looking at websites, getting all ready to go for it only to say to yourself “maybe later”. I have done the big gym thing before and it’s not my cup of tea, main reasons being that I can never decide what equipment I should use or exercises to do, what areas I need to focus on and most importantly how to perform every exercise properly as to not injure myself. I’m one that needs to just show up to the gym, be told what exercises I am doing and be guided through those exercises in a manner that I won’t injure myself, but also with the intent to achieve the greatest result.
I have now been a member at Vaughan’s for over a year and can’t say enough about it. First off this testimonial is something I have wanted to do for a long time. I work out three times per week and have worked with the same two trainers the entire time, Alyssa and Jazmin. I have also on occasion had the fortune of working with some of the other trainers, while mine were on holidays. Marissa, Allyshia, Julianne and Tyler have all been fabulous and a pleasure to work with.
This gym is nothing like the ‘big box chain style gyms’. There is no need to feel intimidated and there is every age and body type working out here. If however, you are looking for yoga or spin classes this is not the gym for you. You get to know everyone from the trainers along with many of the other members. It is without a doubt something I look forward to doing each and every time and that’s something I never thought I would hear myself say as I have always hated the gym
Jarid Vaughn has created an incredible environment here and joining his gym is one of the best things I have ever done. I turned 50 when I first joined and I while I eat fairly well, I was a bit heavier than I wanted to be, had aches and pains here and there and just generally wanted to feel healthier and feel better about myself. I have achieved all that and then some. I never have to weigh myself because I can see the changes. I can easily say that I am in the best physical shape of my life and while I may still have the odd ache and pain (I am over 50 after all), so many of the other issues I was having for years have all disappeared.
My wife has now joined Vaugn’s one day per week and she too is really enjoying it. If you are hesitating on whether or not to join, I hope I have at least convinced you to contact Jarid and set up a consultation. Then you can stop doing your endless research on the internet and making excuses.
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Sarah Ortis
7 years ago
If you have any sort of fitness goals, go to Vaughan’s Fitness. The first time I trained with Vaughan’s I needed to get core strength to fix a back injury, and the second time was to tone up and develop over all body strength. I had very noticeable results after only a couple weeks of training and stayed training for 6+ months because I got so much out of it. My back pain has never returned and am now in great shape. The team at Vaughan’s are very knowledgeable and skilled.I learned so much about effective exercises with proper form. The sessions are tailored to your personal goals and are broken up between various types of exercises which makes each session new, interesting, and enjoyable. I cannot recommend Vaughan’s enough. They are awesome and I am so grateful for them.
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Stephanie Ius
7 years ago
Vaughan's fitness is professional, knowledgeable and friendly. The team there is amazing, and the training is the best I've had. I am very happy with the results and would highly recommend to anyone looking for a gym!
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Jes
7 years ago
My husband and I wanted to start going to the gym about a year ago and I am very happy we chose Vaughn's Fitness. The staff are very well trained, friendly and accommodating. Thanks to Jarid and the staff, we had a good year and will be continuing.
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